A Partner’s Guide to Erectile Dysfunction

Most of the women thing that as men get older, their sexual desire starts to decline and it becomes difficult for them to get and maintain an erection. This is totally true but women should know that men can suffer from erectile dysfunction even during their 30s. Women should also understand that it is a very bothersome problem for men and it can also be a result of some underlying physical problem. Though medications and therapy can reduce the symptoms and temporary treat ED, it can be very frustrating and sometimes embarrassing for a man to share the problem.

If you are thinking that your husband is the only one suffering from this problem, you should know that about 20% of all men in India have ED, and the odds of developing it increase to 30% sharply after age 40.

People who have diabetes, are three times more likely to have ED than men who don’t have diabetes. The disease can damage the blood vessels and nerves needed for an erection.

Having a partner with ED can be difficult to deal with, but think of it from their perspective. We as women cannot even imagine how frustrating it is for them, at least, that’s most men tell to their wives. To understand a man’s sexual problem you must open to what he has to say and take it seriously.

Get to the Root of ED

Although it can feel personal, you should not blame yourself for your partner’s erectile dysfunction. It usually has a combination of causes and you are certainly not one of them.

It’s pretty rare for the source of ED to be the person that he’s having sex with.

Some women will feel like, the husband is not attracted to me so he is not getting an erection which he once used to get but that may not be the reason at all. He may be going through stress, physical changes or other more likely factors.

In older men, blood vessel problems tend to be the main reason for ED. In fact, since the blood vessels in the penis are smaller than those in the heart, heart diseases may have cause sexual problems. Eighty percent of men who land in the ER with a first heart attack say they developed ED at some point of time before.

In younger men, the problem is most often psychological or due to some accident. Stress, depression, and performance anxiety, especially when in a new sexual relation, can be the cause. Medications, such as beta-blockers for high blood pressure and certain antidepressants, also can lead to erection problems.

In most of these cases, ED medications like Cenforce 200, Vidalista 40, Malegra 200 and Fildena 120 can help. They are effective, they have few side effects, and they are not addictive.

If pills don’t do not work, there are other options, including vacuum pumps, injections that the men can take themselves, and implanted devices performed through surgery. If your husband has a heart disease or certain health problems, these medications may not be right for him, so encourage your husband to talk to a doctor before he takes it taking it. In some cases, frequent masturbation may cause a man to be unable to perform with a partner. Try to understand his issues and get to the root of the problem before any form of treatment. If your partner’s problem is low testosterone, he may show symptoms like lack of sex drive and very low energy, in this case testosterone therapy is the ultimate option an can lead to dramatic improvement.

Start with these strategies.

  • Learn as much as you can about ED through internet, friends or books. The more you know, the better prepared you will be able to help your partner. You can learn about lifestyle changes he needs to make and medical treatments that could help him get his erection back. Though Ed pills like Cenforce 100, Vidalista 20, Kamagra Oral Jelly and Vilitra 40 mg are effective, these drugs may work on command, so he may need you help to achieve an erection.
  • Try something new in bed. Often sexual arousal is the big step to achieve an erection. This can mean ramping up foreplay, reading or watching something sexy together, or coming up with a suggestion for something you haven’t tried before can help your partner get an erection.
  • Encourage them to get heart-healthy. Good heart and vascular health can improve penis health. It may not reverse erection problems that are there already, but it certainly reduce the progression.
  • Let your partner know how much you value and support him. Remind them that inability to get an erection has nothing to do with their masculinity, and that it hasn’t changed how you feel about him. Assure him that you will get through this together.
  • Talk about how you feel and you are concerned. Just like anything else that’s going on in your relationship, a conversation about his problems and the positive outcome of treatment can help you both.
  • Discuss what you and your partner want and how to achieve it. Also, let him know that the condition is common in men and can be treated.
  • Find other ways to please and sexually satisfy each other so that he does not feel pressured to perform.
  • Offer to go with them to the doctor. Even if they decide to go on their own, they will know you want to be there for them. The patients who are the most successful in regaining sexual function are those where the sexual partner is a true partner. You can be a huge help to your husband if you go with him.
  • Remind them to let their doctor know how they’re doing. Are their treatment working? Do they have questions or side effects? Encourage them to update their doctor about that.
  • Keep up the other intimate parts of your relationship. Feeling close to each other can include more than sex. You may also want to talk to a counselor, if the changes related to ED are worrying the two of you.

Erectile dysfunction can take a toll on a relationship. You’ll want to support and encourage your partner as they manage their condition. It’s also important to take care of yourself, too.

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Murtaza Ali

Murtaza Ali is a digital marketing expert and creative content writer with skills in online writing, blogging, and social media marketing. He likes to share his knowledge with readers in an inspiring and motivational way.

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